What Procrastination Is Really Hiding

What Procrastination Is Really Hiding

If you procrastinate - not in a dramatic, headline-grabbing way, but in that low-level, background-hum kind of way - I want to reassure you that there’s nothing wrong with you, and you don’t lack discipline or motivation. In fact, most people who procrastinate don’t...

You Don’t Need to Loosen Your Standards – Just Loosen Your Grip

You Don’t Need to Loosen Your Standards – Just Loosen Your Grip

If you’re honest, control probably doesn’t feel like a problem, it feels like: being prepared thinking things through double-checking your work staying on top of things protecting yourself from mistakes From the outside, this looks like competence, but from the...

The Silent Way Comparison Kills Your Confidence at Work

The Silent Way Comparison Kills Your Confidence at Work

Do you find yourself comparing yourself to colleagues, friends or people on social media and feeling less confident as a result? Comparison is one of the biggest hidden causes of low confidence at work, imposter syndrome and self-doubt. And most of us don’t even...

Confidence at Work: When Time Out Is Not a Nice-to-Have

Confidence at Work: When Time Out Is Not a Nice-to-Have

My first ‘proper’ job out of university was in Public Relations, and I thought confidence came from one thing: keeping going. So I said yes to everything, I stayed late until my boss left and I pushed through tiredness. I even remember having two wisdom teeth out and,...

If January Motivation Feels Hard, It’s Not Because You’re Lazy

If January Motivation Feels Hard, It’s Not Because You’re Lazy

In January, everyone else seems to be setting goals, feeling focused, and ‘starting the year strong’. Meanwhile, you feel flat. Uncertain. Behind. So you tell yourself you should try harder.Be more disciplined. Push through. But what if January motivation isn’t a...

Why Your Feelings Aren’t Your Enemy – They’re Data

Why Your Feelings Aren’t Your Enemy – They’re Data

Have you ever had a moment where you thought: “Why did that bother me so much?” or“I know they didn’t mean anything by it, so why am I reacting like this?” Maybe it was a comment, a tone, a look, a decision, or even a silence. Nothing dramatic.Nothing intentionally...