What Procrastination Is Really Hiding
If you procrastinate - not in a dramatic, headline-grabbing way, but in that low-level, background-hum kind of way - I want to reassure you that there’s nothing wrong with you, and you don’t lack discipline or motivation. In fact, most people who procrastinate don’t...
Why Being Told You’re Doing Fine Still Doesn’t Feel Enough at Work
In the early stages of your career, confidence is often talked about as something you either have or don’t have. But in reality, confidence is shaped quietly - through the environments you’re in, the expectations you’re navigating, and how safe it feels to trust your...
You Don’t Need to Loosen Your Standards – Just Loosen Your Grip
If you’re honest, control probably doesn’t feel like a problem, it feels like: being prepared thinking things through double-checking your work staying on top of things protecting yourself from mistakes From the outside, this looks like competence, but from the...
The Silent Way Comparison Kills Your Confidence at Work
Do you find yourself comparing yourself to colleagues, friends or people on social media and feeling less confident as a result? Comparison is one of the biggest hidden causes of low confidence at work, imposter syndrome and self-doubt. And most of us don’t even...
Confidence at Work: When Time Out Is Not a Nice-to-Have
My first ‘proper’ job out of university was in Public Relations, and I thought confidence came from one thing: keeping going. So I said yes to everything, I stayed late until my boss left and I pushed through tiredness. I even remember having two wisdom teeth out and,...
If January Motivation Feels Hard, It’s Not Because You’re Lazy
In January, everyone else seems to be setting goals, feeling focused, and ‘starting the year strong’. Meanwhile, you feel flat. Uncertain. Behind. So you tell yourself you should try harder.Be more disciplined. Push through. But what if January motivation isn’t a...
New Year Goals or Old Insecurities? How to Set Goals That Actually Support Your Confidence at Work
January often starts with good intentions: you want to feel more confident, more capable, more together at work so you set goals: to work harder to improve yourself to finally ‘get on top of things’ But for many people, something unexpected happens instead: confidence...
When Workplace Confidence Is Low: How Hidden Behaviours Make Work Harder
Most people think “low confidence at work” only looks like shyness or being quiet in meetings.But in reality? Low confidence affects how you communicate, how you make decisions, how you set boundaries and how you handle pressure - often without you realising...
Are You Celebrating or Quietly Struggling? The Truth Behind December Overindulgence
December is full of treats, drinks, social events, late nights and “oh go on then” moments. A bit of indulgence is normal - expected, even. It’s part of the season. But for many people, the snacking, drinking, scrolling, spending or saying “yes” to everything isn’t...
Why Your Feelings Aren’t Your Enemy – They’re Data
Have you ever had a moment where you thought: “Why did that bother me so much?” or“I know they didn’t mean anything by it, so why am I reacting like this?” Maybe it was a comment, a tone, a look, a decision, or even a silence. Nothing dramatic.Nothing intentionally...









